Cammie, Suddenly

Cammie is now a member of the family, as well as of the household. She was before, really - just as Bear-Bear was - but when the adoption papers are signed, it will be official. I have changed the heading on this blog to reflect her new status, and to reflect another alteration in the population. One happy and one sad. Such are our lives.

My Siamese princess is going through a strange phase right now, and it is undoubtedly related to the transition in our home. Kola left, Tungsten passed away, Faber came and went… Those are many things to deal with, even when you know the reasons behind them. To Cammie, they are bewildering mysteries. So she has been restless, especially when it comes to lap-time. She has jumped on to my lap numerous times, only to jump down again a second later; in some cases, that’s literal: a second later.

On the other hand, she has been getting up on the bed more often, spending time there, snoozing there. She has done that previously but not to this extent. And when she gets down, she uses the steps provided, rather than leaping down.

And Sunday night, the strangest event occurred. Cammie had joined me on the bed when I was ready for sleep. She lie half on me and half off, and purred, as if she were on my lap. Evetually, she got down. I woke in the middle of the night, however, to feel a cat lying on me. This one was in a position similar to that which Renn adopts, so I gave him a gentle push on the rump to move him. But it wasn’t him, it was her. It was Cammie.

It was Cammie on the bed with all three other perma-cats. They were all in their usual positions, except for the princess. She doesn’t have a usual position. Yet she lie down next to me and stayed there for some time. I fell asleep and think I woke when she got down. But for her to settle on to the bed while the others - or even one other - were there, or to stay while others joined her, is unprecedented. She did not repeat this startling action last night, and may not again for some time. But she did it once, so I predict she will do it again.

The loss of a top-cat can lead to widespread changes in situations and behaviour, I have no doubt, or it may lead to nothing new. But Cammie may feel that without Tungsten certain behaviours are permitted. She may have decided not to attempt sleeping on the bed while the orange one held sway. Whether expressed or not, rules applied. Now that the tiny terror is gone, Cammie may not feel the bed is out of bounds.

But it is a coincidence that my newest cat decided to try the bed the very weekend I told her that she was with me to stay, that she was part of the family. Can she understand my words? She ignores them most of the time, so I see no reason why she wouldn’t in this case. But a slight alteration in attitude, in tone, the changed circumstances in the household… All may contribute to new dynamics. 

I hope to have all four perma-cats on the bed with me again. This time, Tungsten will have given her spot to Cammie. And I doubt if the orange one will be hissing at her this time.

Breaking News: Faber Goes Home

In an unexpected and unusual turn of events, Faber has gone home - to his old home, not a new one. I and the others in the rescue-group to which I belong, the Lethbridge PAW Society, thought he was abandoned, as it seemed that no one was looking for him. It turned out that, like many cats who are eventually rescued, he was lost. In his case, however, he was found again.

The family to which he belonged were indeed searching for him, and published a picture of him on-line. The woman who had kindly fed Faber for two months and then called the PAW Society about him, recognized him. She contacted the family, and they contacted PAW.

Faber - or Frodo, as he was originally named, perhaps because of his feet - was collected yesterday, in the early evening. His people cheerfully reimbursed PAW for the cost of neutering and other medical attention.

I am glad to be part of reuniting him with his family, but I will miss him. He was with me less than a week, but he was such an easy-going and friendly fellow that he impressed himself upon me quite rapidly. My perma-cats , though, won’t miss him. They will, I think, be glad to have the parlour back; that’s where Faber (as I will continue to call him) was quarantined. Ironically, they spent hardly any time in there last night. Cammie, whose favourite room it was, didn’t come in at all. But it may take time for everyone to get back into their routines.

So my household returns to one of four cats; excitement fades and everyone settles once more into equilibrium. But I give a thought to Faber, and wish him luck and continued affection in his home.

Faber Ventures Out

Faber was let out of quarantine for the first time yesterday. It was for just an hour, and with only Renn and Josie out to see him. Tucker and Cammie were locked in the bedroom.

Faber enjoyed exploring everywhere. He encountered Renn in the sitting room. My big boy remained on the armchair, but growled the whole time that the new fellow was out. Faber need not have even been in sight, and Renn growled with the regularity of breathing. It may have been because Faber was only recently neutered, and still smells like a tom-cat.

For his part, Faber was a bit alarmed by the growling, and hid in corners twice. I had to coax him out. Aside from these instances, however, he roamed free and wide. He found the stairs to the basement, where he seemed to find many interesting smells. He wanted up to the library window and though little can be seen from that ground-level view, he thought it fascinating.

Josie seemed unconcerned by the newcomer, though she kept to the top of the tallest cat-tree, and merely watched Faber’s peregrinations.

There was no fighting - though Faber didn’t care to come close to Renn, so I don’t know what will happen if he ever does - but I am encouraged by the new boy’s apprehension at Renn’s fierceness. I don’t want Faber to be afraid, but I’d prefer him to respect the resident cats rather than try to assert himself forcefully, as has happened with some foster-cats in the past.

Each day, Faber will be released for more explorations, and each day my lot will grow more accustomed to him. Integrations at my house have always required patience and tolerance. I have the former; I’m hoping the perma-cats will contribute the latter.

Cammie is Adopted!

Things have been happening in the household and we’ve had some big changes lately. My orange one, Tungsten, died last month. When I hear things that sound like noises she made, I still look to her cat-bed, and for the briefest instant, wonder where she is, because the bed is empty. Kola left me, too, but to go to a new home. I haven’t had a first-hand report on the Floof King’s adventures but from what I have been told, he is doing well and…he is going to be adopted.

And now, Cammie.

My Siamese princess has been adopted. The process hasn’t been finalised yet, but there is no going back. This little animal will at last have a home from which she will never be parted. I consider it a good home for her; it’s not ideal, as there are other cats present, and Cammie would do best as an only-cat, the sole object of her human’s attention. But I believe that she will be content, and her transition will be smooth.

She will be staying with me.

I had decided some time ago that Cammie would not be going anywhere. If someone expressed a serious desire to adopt her, I would pre-empt the effort and keep her. I feel that this would be best for her. My reasoning is thus (and I elucidate it here as much to persuade myself that I’m not crazy for adopting her as to justify the action in general).

Cammie is very sensitive and very defensive. She is not what some would term a ‘difficult’ cat; I don’t believe there are such things. But neither is she an ‘easy’ cat. She does not come ‘companionship-ready’. When one adopts a cat, one does so to have a friend, a playmate, a companion. One doesn’t want to wait six months just to be able to touch one’s pet, a year to be able to have her on one’s lap. I can understand that. I was fortunate in that she spent the last two years with me as a foster-cat, rather than as ‘my’ cat. I had the time to, well, ignore her, if that’s what it took to gain her trust. I could let her be herself and evolve a relationship with her over time.

That relationship is, I believe, quite strong. She trusts me. I can pick her up. I can hold her. I can’t boast that she likes it, but she allows it. She still hisses at me when I displease her (which, honestly, seems to be more often than with any other cat, but that’s Cammie); it is just her way. Tungsten would cry out in protest, Cammie hisses. Even when she is in a bad mood (which is usually in the mornings, some afternoons, now and then in the evenings, and at night), she will tolerate my intrusion into her grumpiness.

But she can purr. She can purr loudly and lustily. She kneads. She plays. She races around after the red dot of a laser-pointer as if chasing the last mouse in a world of starving cats. She rolls and twists and somersaults to fight with a string-toy. She has her spots about the house, her safe zones and her comfort areas. She knows her world. And it’s taken her two years to get there.

I’m not vain enough to believe that my home is the only one for her. I think that there are many people sympathetic and patient enough to make this creature happy. But unless they were extraordinary, it would take another year, perhaps two, for Cammie to achieve the familiarity and comfort that she has here. And during that period, she would be the frightened tenant in a house of strangers, bewildered by another change in her world, bereft of everything she knew. And that would be over a large portion of the life remaining to a ten year old cat.

Besides, I like her.

I told her some time ago that if something happened to one of the perma-cats, I would be financially able to adopt her. She does not replace Tungsten. No one can replace that tiny beast. And Cammie has been a roommate of mine on her own merits for a couple of years. But now I can afford her. It’s too bad that we need to take economics into account when considering cats and dogs, but those are the realities of life, and not to consider them would be a disservice to the animal. Four is, I think, my limit.

In any case, I think Tungsten would be grimly amused by the fact that I could adopt Cammie only over her dead body. The orange one had a good sense of humour.

And so the Siamese princess comes into her own little kingdom. It’s just in time, as Faber’s advent has upset Cammie a bit, though it may be only the temporary loss of her favourite room that is causing her displeasure. I will be giving her extra attention while my new foster-cat is introduced to the household. And after that, she will have a lifetime with me, safe and warm, with good food and fresh water, plenty of play and affection - and, I hope, happiness.

Introducing Faber

I have a new foster-cat. My home is kept as a kind of emergency shelter by the rescue-group I work with. Sometimes we have ‘returns’ (every cat-rescuer knows about those unfortunates) and, since they are unscheduled, so to speak, they have no where to go. But in Faber’s case, I have taken in a cat who clearly had a home and a loving family, but who found himself abandoned or lost. He was not doing well outside, and though he was being fed by a concerned person, he may not have lasted long in his neighbourhood. That person contacted the rescue-group.

Faber is a lean, dense fellow, a couple of years old, I think. Orange and white, he has extra toes on each foot. And he is friendly. He loves having his face and head rubbed. He purrs very quietly while this is going on, and is not shy about stepping on to my lap if I am sitting next to him, or jumping up onto me if he’s on the floor.

He is eating very well right now, though that may be because he was very recently in the ‘wild’ and learned to eat when he could, as much as he could. His spell as a homeless cat did not make him distrustful of people, however, and he is ready for attention.

I have isolated him in my parlour for the time being, until we are sure he is free of respiratory problems or other contagions. He appears to be in good health. He was bored in the room until I introduced the little fuzzy mice, and then he had a fun time batting them around. I had to recover them from under furniture only eight times the first five minutes…

He is doing very well after his neutering surgery, and will be ready for adoption soon. I want some time to get to know him, though, so we can tell prospective adopters about this fellow. I will be introducing him, gradually, to my lot, starting, probably, with Josie and Renn, my easiest integrators. But I don’t see any reason why he can’t live in a multi-cat household. I guess he’ll let me know if there is one.

The Sounds of a Sausage

Since Kola has left for his permanent home, Tucker has changed somewhat. He’s still the same sausage-shaped furry baby in many ways, but I’ve seen an alteration in a couple of his traits.

For one thing he has become more affectionate, or, rather, asks me to be more affectionate. He frequently would amble over to me, especially when I was in the kitchen, washing the dishes, or putting items away in the cupboards, and rub his fuzzy melon-head against me. Now he does it even more often. He will roll over on the floor and beg for attention, which it is difficult to resist giving. One of his favourite spots is the cat-hammock by the dining table, and when I pass him as he’s lying in that, he will sometimes look up and give a squeal, then revolve on the hammock to tell me it’s head-stroking time.

That leads me into the second change. Tucker is more vocal than was once the case. He will talk to me more than he had, and talk just in general. At soft-food meal-times, I will hear little peeps coming from him, as if there is a tiny factory whistle in him that is announcing that it’s time for dinner. He wanders about discussing things with himself in abrupt cries.

Then there is his singing, which he usually does when I am out of the room. This sounds like a high-pitched version of what I imagine a hippo’s call to his friends sounds like. The ropy poly one almost always ceases this loopy sound when I enter the room, or look at him around a corner, as if it was not meant for me to hear.

That this new - or perhaps ‘increased’ would be a better word - characteristic began with Kola’s departure, makes me think that Tucker is trying to tell me something. Either he is letting me know that the household didn’t need the Floof King (“See? I can make all the noise that long-haired guy did.”) or he is celebrating Kola’s absence. Tucker never shared my fondness for that foster-cat.

Whatever the cause, Tucker has added another, not unpleasant, element to my life. As if I needed my cats to do more odd things.

I Have Four Cats

I have four cats. The most recent time I had such a low number was last year, briefly, in the latter part of May. That was after Cammie left to go (also briefly, thank goodness) to Regina, but before Kola came to stay with me. Kola made five and Cammie’s return brought the number up to six. That was the norm here for the next ten months.

Prior to that period, I can’t remember the last time I had just four cats. I literally can’t recall. Before Kola, there was Bear-Bear, and Rachael, and Luther… Their times with me didn’t overlap in each case, but for as long as I can recollect, I have had at least one foster-cat in addition to my four perma-cats. And now I have just three of those.

Josie - Josefina von Chubs - is now my senior feline, in terms both of age and her time with me. She came to me on Christmas Eve of 2008, when she was five years old. Good Heavens, that will make her twelve when her birthday rolls around in summer. She is good natured, though she has shown that she can be testy with foster-cats, and when she finds someone in the nylon tunnel. She has become a demonstrably happy cat over the years, always ready to be petted.

Renn - Renfrew Foster - is seven years old, and came as a foster-cat in May, 2010. He used to be afraid of everything. His great enemies were the roofers who spent the summer after his arrival on a neighbouring building, banging and pounding. Now, he fears much less, and, after an initial period of anxiety, has little problem greeting new people and enjoying their attentions.

Tucker - Tucker R. Poly - came to visit as a foster-cat in October, 2010. He was five at the time, and so is ten now, but he still reminds me of a big furry baby. Or a sausage. Or a wombat. He has always been very timid. The slightest movement may send him scurrying away, startled. But he is also the happiest cat I have known. Tucker will purr if you merely look at him, and whispering his name will cause his pudgy little feet to flex in joy. He also squeals and squeaks and talks and whoops. He has been my most expensive cat, due to his health issues. Those appear to be behind him, with luck, but I don’t regret a penny I’ve spent on him.

And there is my foster-cat, Cammie - Princess Cammerouska Albigensia of Siam (I think she may be a fraud, as those names don’t appear very Siamese to me). Eight years old when she arrived at my house in July, 2013, she is now ten. She was very distrustful and it was months before she purred, but she has come a long way since then. I can now pick her up and hold her. I don’t believe she likes it much, but she allows it, and that is a great improvement. She left for a few weeks in the middle of 2014. We thought it was a permanent adoption though, as it turned out, we were fortunate that it was not. Cammie was not in a good environment there, and she came back to live with me.

These are the four who live with me now. The house seems quiet - despite the occasional singing from the boys - and empty. I still have a quartet of animals, two of them rather large for their species, but something is missing. An individual creature can fill a space with its personality, and two such cats left me in as many days last week. There is no top-cat now, and no one to lock away at nights to keep him safe from another. We are a reduced band, and we miss those who have gone before. But we are content, and glad to be safe and fed, sheltered and befriended. Life is not what it was, but it is good.