Cammie is
back with me. How this occurred is a strange tale, though it may not be
unfamiliar in many aspects to other animal-rescuers or groups.
Cammie was
adopted at the very beginning of May. A woman from Regina saw her during her internet search for
a blue-point Siamese, a kind of cat that she fancied. This woman contacted the
rescue-group of which I am a member, the Lethbridge PAW Society, and she and
one of the Executive spoke on the telephone at some length. What was stressed
was Cammie’s abused background, and how she would take a long, perhaps very
long time, to trust a person. It was also pointed out that Cammie had not lived
with other cats until she came to stay in a foster-home (mine) but had
progressed well in her integration.
The woman
from Regina, X
(as I will call her) told of her background and how she had one other cat. It
was thought, by myself as well as others, that if Cammie could live reasonably
well with five (including the late Bear-Bear) other cats, she would find one
not much of an adjustment. Time was what Cammie needed, time to trust.
X
travelled the seven hours to Lethbridge
to collect Cammie. She seemed nice. The only traits about her that made me
think otherwise were her reluctance to return communications (though her work
made that understandable) and a vague apathy to what I explained to her about
Cammie when we met in person. She appeared excited to get Cammie, and I assumed
her behaviour was due to that – and the 567 mile journey she had just
undertaken.
After that,
contacting X for an update on Cammie was extremely difficult. She had agreed to
provide information on how Cammie was doing, and to do a telephone interview
for the PAW newsletter. X never returned calls or messages. Eventually, I did
get hold of her and from what she told me, all seemed to be going relatively
well, if not entirely happily. But I knew Cammie required time to settle down.
Because of
the long trip she had had to undertake, Cammie was put in an extra large
carrier, to give her room to stand and stretch during the car-ride. This was
borrowed by X and would be picked up by A, a member of the PAW Society who
would be travelling to Regina
on unrelated business in mid-June. Mid-June came, and A went to pick up the
carrier. X continued to be difficult to get hold of, and at last agreed to
leave the carrier outside her house, because she was working on that day.
Stopping
by the house, A found the carrier and decided to talk to whomever was home. She
wanted a first-hand account of Cammie’s progress, and perhaps to see the little
cat. Anyone who has rescued a cat would comprehend. No one was home. But a
moment later, a relative of X drove up. He explained that Cammie was not doing
well, and was not getting along with the other cats - of which there were three,
not one. He also said, in vulgar language, that Cammie was messed up
(psychologically). A asked if the relative wanted her to take Cammie back. The
relative thought this an excellent idea, and stated that X would have no
objection either.
Cammie
made the long trip back to Lethbridge
the next day. She is in my back parlour, where all new arrivals spend some
time, though, because she is familiar with my home and my perma-cats, I intend
to let her out later to see how she behaves. This is risky, since with Cammie,
getting her back in a confined space will be next to impossible. Kola, who is
the former Lola – repeatedly calling him ‘her’ because of the name was driving
me bats – is a new factor in the household, but he is, so far, reacting well to
hisses and growls (ie. he accepts them as the warnings they are and backs
away.)
No one
connected with Cammie’s adoption on this end can explain X’s behaviour, though
we have our theories. I won’t bother with them here. X has, so far, not
contacted PAW, and may never. It was agreed that she could adopt Cammie because
we all wanted the little girlcat to have her chance at a permanent home. That
did not work and we have learned our lesson, and fortunately have not lost
Cammie in the learning. I am simply glad to have Cammie back, unhurt. Her
progress in trust may have received a blow, but I don’t think it will be a
severe one. I am thankful that A had to collect the carrier loaned to X; if it
hadn’t been for that, and the timely arrival of X’s relative on an errand unconnected
to Cammie, we would never have known about her predicament, and never have
gotten her back. She is safe now, and I will start again to earn her trust.
Perhaps she hasn’t forgotten everything she once learned.
Oh my, why would she do this to this sweet cat.
ReplyDeleteThis is the hardest part of 'rescue'. Finding and trusting potential adopters. I'm glad she's back and hope that she does eventually find the right, loving home. They all deserve that. She is a very beautiful cat. Deb
ReplyDeleteOh, I am so sorry to hear that the forever home didn't work out for Cammie. Seriously I don't understand why some people feel the need to lie. I hope the rescue in Lethbridge can be in touch with the Regina Humane Society and warn them of her unethical behaviour.
ReplyDeleteI hope Cammie settles in easily, though I suspect you're in for some trials as she reintegrates. Poor girl! I am glad she is back with you...I think she has a chance since you obviously care for her and will do what is right.
That is so sad. I know you had some misgivings about her going to a home so far away. There must be many shelters near to where the woman lives so it is strange that she wanted Cammie, especially after you told her of her background. Instinct is usually right.
ReplyDeleteI am very glad that the carrier had to be collected and Cammie's plight was discovered. I hope she settles back in with you well where she knows she is loved. It brings tears to my eyes to think of what she may have gone through whilst she was away.
Poor Cammie. Thank goodness the stars aligned and made it possible for her to be taken back to you. Eileen's made a good point re: PAWS contacting other shelters to give them a heads up. Not sure if that's done. A blacklist of potential adopters.
ReplyDeleteSometimes adoptions DON'T work out in spite of all that is tried/done, but there's no need for this kind idiocy on the part of the human.
Purrs for Cammie...Maybe she IS in her forever home. :-)
Someone in this story was certainly "messed up psychologically," but it wasn't Cammie.
ReplyDeleteI'm very glad she's safe, but I worry about those other cats X owns. X sounds like one of those people who are not cut out to be pet owners at all.
Undine is right. Psychologically messed up describes "X". I imagine if anyone does come forward to adopt Cammie you'll want a home inspection. Poor girl. But, you know perhaps it was meant to be that she is with you. I remember how sad you felt that she left the first time.
ReplyDeleteI am so very very glad that Cammie is back safe with you where she belongs. This little sweetie needs to be safe and your home seems to be that place.
ReplyDeletesorry I missed this (was out of town)....what an adventure. glad she is back safe with you....
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