As
is natural, the introduction of a new cat into a feline household brings
changes, even before that cat is integrated into the group; indeed, before the
others even meet him. So it is with Jessel.
The
two most affected within our home are Tucker and Renn. Tucker is always
affected by new cats. I don’t think he has ever recovered from being the lowest
on the totem pole. He is constantly determined not to return to that
ignominious position. He had an animous against Parker for a long time, one
that erupted in an actual brawl. It was only the inclusion of a still newer cat
– Raleigh – in the family that mitigated the roly poly’s feelings toward Puck.
And Raleigh himself was so inoffensive – and oblivious to any offence others
may think he was causing – that he rendered himself harmless. Neville’s advent
was not as bad and, in fact, the Nevsky seems to have taken longer to shed his
anxiety of Tucker than the other way around.
Now,
however, comes Jessel, smelling of the outside and, significantly, not neutered.
(I thought initially that he was, but was in error.) The unique status of the
new fellow has made Tucker’s reaction to him sharper than it had been to
others. Tucker has taken to wetting where he shouldn’t. So far, it has been on
hard (uncarpetted) surfaces, and a soaker-pad. He even wet right in front of me
while I was talking to him. My response is to give him more attention and show
him more affection than usual – though since he is often near me, I tend by
circumstances to give him more than anyone else, anyway. I don’t doubt that he
will recover fully; it will simply take time.
Renn
is also adversely changed by Jessel’s arrival. My new foster-cat is currently
installed in the library, where he must remain until after some time after his
neutering. This won’t happen until a week from Tuesday. (His vaccinations and
general examination will take place in a couple of days, but surgery will await
the results of any blood- and other tests that are required; also, on an
increase in his weight.) In the meantime, Renn is cut off from his preferred
spot for being alone, a corner of the library behind a book-case. He has sought
out a couple of other locations as substitutes; neither is as good as his
original, but I will respect them as if they make him invisible. He is also
grumpier toward the other cats.
This
behaviour is not really in contrast to his generally accepting attitude toward
new cats. The latter comes into action when he meets them. The anticipation,
and the disruption caused, comprise a different matter. I think they, like
Tucker’s problem, will be healed with time.
Neville
seems interested in meeting Jessel. Nev has waited outside closed doors, behind
which the neophyte has resided, on several occasions. Whether this translates
into a genuine desire to make an acquaintance is another question, as is
whether that acquaintance will be friendly.
Finally,
Josie appears almost unaffected by the alteration in our situation. It may be
because she doesn’t move much beyond the bedroom, with occasional forays, when
necessary, to the store-room for a litter-box visit. Her food is brought to her
in the bedroom, there is always abundant water for her; comfort is assured by
different levels of two cat-trees and a comfy bed. My Chubs may also benefit
from being my old lady: as I can testify, increased age makes one realise how
unimportant much that seemed once to loom large really is. Yet another new beast
may fall into that category.
As
for the cause of all our distress, such as it is, Jessel knows that there are
other cats in the Cosy Apartment, but seems more concerned with moving beyond
his confines, though this desire has decreased a little with his switch to the
library, and its heights for climbing, its springy rugs and cushioned couch and
ottoman, and, above all, its window. How he really feels about having roommates
remains to be seen.
Considering how friendly he is, I’m surprised Jessel hasn’t been fixed. Once that happens, hopefully he’ll be integrated without too many problems.
ReplyDeleteThat surprised me, too. Perhaps his original owners wanted to wait until he was an adult before fixing him, but then decided just to get rid of the no-longer-kittenish adult cat.
DeleteWe hope all works out once the snip happens, he's such a good looking guy and so wants to be happy too.
ReplyDeleteWhenever a new cat joins my household, I've found that the newcomer settles in fairly easily. However, it takes the existing cats awhile to accept their new roommate. It will take time, but if introductions are made gradually, I don't think Jessel will have a problem with the other cats.
ReplyDeleteI guess there is a strict cat hierarchy in the apartment, and Renn is sensitive to coming changes. We hope all of the roomies will be able to get along together.
ReplyDeleteOf course Tucker and Renn are annoyed, Jessel is an intruder!Hopefully after the snip and a clean bill of health they can be introduced without too much animosity. Who knows, Nev may even have a friend!
ReplyDeleteHeHe! Bless! I feel a 'soap opera' coming on..
ReplyDeleteThree evenings a week..Mon~Frid..! 6~6:30..! :).
Jessel in the library..You did'nt say what books
he likes to read..! I won't quote the obvious
ones..!
Lets hope it continues to come together nicely,
in friendship at least..! :o).
Sometimes people wait too long for neutering their cats, then when normal animal actions start to take place, people get angry or disgusted or whatever, and release the poor cats outdoors. Jessel will be a lucky cat when all is over and healed. In the meantime, you have your hands full and Renn and Tucker seem to have their paws full, too. Hope all settles down soon for them. They were just getting used to you 5 alone, and now throw in a new one!
ReplyDeleteI am looking forward to his Vet visit for vaccinations, bloodwork and his neutering. Then, the inclusion into the family begins with Renn and Tucker making Jessel's acquaintance. You always know what to do! I admire that. I would be in a flibberty-jibbet.
ReplyDeleteI haven't heard that expression for years! When I was a child and getting over excited my nan used to tell me to stop acting like a flibbertigibbet.
DeleteHere's hoping the ripples of change caused by Jessel's presence will soon wane.
ReplyDeleteI certainly hope that Tucker and Renn will relax once Jessel is fixed and everyone can find their place. Good luck with the vet visit.
ReplyDeleteWe have not had a new addition in some years and when Einstein came he was only 4 weeks old so did slide into things. Our loss of the King, Buddy Budd, was the thing that caused problems as our new Alpha, Rumpy Bump, is a tyrant. Ah living with cats is an adventure
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