I
have previously said, or written, that cats are creatures of habit: they will
follow a routine religiously – until they don’t. The truth is that cats’
behaviour evolves, usually along with their personalities. Cammie is a good
example of this.
Her
world changed fundamentally after her stroke at the end of May. She recovered,
at least superficially, from all its effects save for her blindness. She cannot
see. At first, I thought this might lead to her remaining stationary as much as
possible. But I didn’t count on her spirit, a spirit which demanded that she
rule her principality as a princess should. I have described how she will ‘make
a progression’ (as it was called when the Tudor monarchs did it) through the
length and breadth of the realm simply to take a drink of water from her
favourite cup. Even so, she has changed, though how much this has resulted from
her sightlessness I can’t say.
She
has become a lap-cat. She can often be found in one of the two heated cat-beds
these days – it’s cold outside now, and my princess is, shall we say, mature –
but she waits at certain times of the day for me to sit on the couch. After
dinner, for instance, I relax for a bit with a cup of tea. When she hears me
sit, she gets up and makes her way over to me, climbing up her little staircase
and lying down on my lap (getting up and walking away only to return a couple
of times in the first one or two minutes…). Initially, she lie diagonally
across my lap, so I needed one hand to support her, and keep her from falling
off as she relaxed and the other hand to pet her. Now, she situates herself
more centrally, and I can actually hold a book to read while she lies on me. Sometimes,
she will stay with me for half an hour, purring the whole time.
Cammie’s
meal-times have changed, too. She doesn’t always want soft food; now and then,
she simply doesn’t feel like it. But when she does, she will sit up in her bed,
or at least raise her head, showing some interest. I tell her, “Cammie, up up,
up up.” Very often, she will walk to the sitting room’s couch, once more ascend
the stairs and wait for her food. That’s where she usually eats now. I don’t
know how this evolved, but I am pleased by it. It allows me to keep a ready eye
on her, to see if she wants more food, to see if she is eating at all and, most
importantly, to see when she is finished. When she finishes, she gets down and,
though, since she was struck blind, she rarely tries to eat anyone else’s food,
that is still a danger, so having her where I can observe her permits me better
to guard against her ingestion of food that will cause one of her episodes.
Finally,
there is the moment when, early in the morning, I must go to work. To relieve
her of the stress of negotiating an apartment full of cats when I am not
present, and to encourage her to eat the special hard food she is given, I
isolate the princess in the bedroom. She has there a litter-box, food and three
water-bowls (though I think she uses only her favourite.) Since I have started
installing a heated cat-bed each day before leaving, Cammie is much less
reluctant to go into the bedroom at the appointed time. In fact, now she
frequently does it unbidden. I will sometimes see her slowly walking toward the
bedroom of her own volition, or will find her already there, in the cat-bed or
waiting for it. There, she has all the comforts and is, for the day, an ‘only-cat’,
as is her fervent desire.
My
Cammie’s habits change, as do those of other cats; sometimes slowly, imperceptibly;
sometimes over night. I am thankful that her evolutions have been beneficial,
helpful not only to herself but to me. When I think back to her arrival in my
life, and how I was actually afraid of this hissing, yowling animal, I think
that her time with me has been filled with marvels. But then, that is to be
expected, for Cammie is a marvel herself.
Animals are much better at adapting to circumstances than we are, and Cammie seems to have done so extremely well.
ReplyDeleteShe is indeed a marvel. May the Princess have a long and happy reign.
ReplyDeleteYour sweet Princess Cammie is very, very special.
ReplyDeleteThis makes me so happy t read. I am extra glad that she has come to this loving pass. And I can completely agree, even though I can't see her, with your excellent description of her Royal Reign. Smoochies to the Princess.
ReplyDeleteHow sweet that Cammie is a lap cat now.
ReplyDeleteGood on you Princess Cammie. We are glad that life has settled into its new rhythms for you.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post about a very special Princess. Cammie has certainly come a long way and she has adapted so well to being blind. Of course, your love and care have helped her adapt.
ReplyDelete"Cammie is a marvel herself" Aww, so sweet
ReplyDeleteWell John.. l don't mind admitting, and putting
ReplyDeletemy hand up to being quite emotional, even for
happy things in life..Love the way you write,
love the way you care..so, l've had to remove my
reading glasses, and wipe a tear away..! And..
read though this wonderful post about Cammie!x
Can't say it enough times..Thankyou! :).
Thank you, Willie. This is indeed a compliment.
DeleteSuch a lovely post for your Princess. The photos make my heart melt; it's so sweet to see her cuddled up on your lap. ♥
ReplyDeleteWith you as her guardian, Cammie's world is as open as she wants it to be! Nicely done, John!
ReplyDeletecammie; we iz buzzed happee ta lurn ewe R adjustin sew well; with dadz help; sum sekrit add vize frum de cat father; N de blessingz oh St Francis....ya canna go wrong....heerz ta manee happee dayz a head ♥♥♥♥♥
ReplyDeleteit's been a while coming to this level of comfort for Cammie to work up to, but thank goodness it has happened. You get to reap rewards with her curling up in your lap and knowing she is in comfort the long days while you are at work.
ReplyDeleteI continue to be grateful that Cammie ended up in your home John, I shudder to think what might have been for her. I agree, cats do change their habits. (So do we as we age, finding easier ways to do things...at least that's been my experience).
ReplyDeleteCammie is truly a "princess"! I agree with you that she has come a long way and adapted. Thank you for taking such good care of her and giving her the comfort she needs. I miss my princess and I think my tabby boys do to. They don't have her ruling over them and they seem a bit lost but they will adapt. Please give Cammie an extra cuddle from me.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful transition it is when we see one of our furs move from angry and wary to very warm and cuddling. This does not happen in every case but when it does it gives us the best of all returns on our investment into their lives. What a wonderful little lady she is
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