A Surfeit of Companionship

Part of the duties of a foster-guardian is to socialize the cats in his care, to accustom them to human contact and, if possible, to create in them a desire for that contact. When it works, it feels wonderful. When it works with numerous cats, it feels crowded.

I like to relax after dinner; bring a cup of tea into the sitting room, listen to music, and sit with the cats. Not all of them want to share the couch with me all the time, but, more and more often, they do.

Brazil will follow me about, voicing his desire in a soft, Renn-like cry, eventually flopping down in front of me. He won’t climb on my lap; I have to put him there, after which he relaxes, closes his eyes and enjoys the attention.

Moxy will start with kneading; lots and lots of it, telling me, among other things, that he needs his claws cut. Then he will roll onto my legs and want chest rubs.

Imogen of course feels proprietorial, and will sit facing me, kneading in her slow, shallow manner, until she curls up, half on my lap and half off, requiring a hand to keep her in place.

Then, there’s Neville, who will slowly approach, making his throaty demands for a lengthy chin-rub. He will sometimes lie on my legs, sometimes not. Sometimes, I have to reach for him, which, though laborious, allows me to tend to two cats at once.

Periodically, even Valkyrie will want lap-time - briefly, in between bouncing across the cat-trees and playing with fuzzy mice.

Though I want Indigo to leave the bedroom at least once in a while, I suppose I am lucky that she confines her cuddles and snuggles to the chair at my computer desk, and after I go to bed. She has no rival then.

That leaves only Sable. Some day, I hope to have her on my lap, too, enjoying having her furry head abrased, or perhaps even falling asleep next to me. Maybe by then, others will have been adopted and found other laps. Or mine will be wider.

The Old Uncle

I think Neville has been holding out on me. A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about how he climbed Minuet’s cat-tree in the bedroom. Now, I think he was playing with Valkyrie.

Sometimes, the Nevsky goes down to the basement and spends time in the library. I think he may want to get away from the others. Whatever the reason, he is not always alone down there. Sunday afternoon, I walked to the library. Peering into the room, I saw Nev and Valkyrie on the couch. Neville was slapping the couch’s surface in front of him with a paw, alternating this with Valk reaching out with one of her paws. I didn’t understand what they were doing.

Afterward, I observed two fuzzy mice between Neville’s outstretched front feet. Valkyrie had been trying to snatch them from her old uncle, and he was smacking at her paws in refusal.

I have seen and heard Neville when he is grumpy. He makes derisive sounds and usually turns away, or even walks off, if he is truly annoyed. If he wanted simply to let the youngster have the mice, he would have moved back. And if Valkyrie had wanted the mice, she would have dug them out with a concentrated effort. They were playing the feline version of Hungry Hippo.

Has Neville been a playful uncle all along? I doubt it, since I probably would have seen it long before now. But perhaps, every now and then, one of the youngsters catches him in the right mood. Or perhaps it’s Valkyrie, and he has a soft spot for her. In any case, that afternoon, for a few minutes, my old grey lion was playing with a kitten.